For many of us self pleasure equals a certain way we touch ourselves, commonly with some sort of goal. You are not listening to what your body really wants moment to moment, and instead, more focussed on what you think you should be doing or experiencing. When that for some reason doesn’t happen you may become frustrated or sad, thinking that there is something “wrong” with you. Reaching the goal can feel absolutely awesome, but like any drug you may experience a hangover effect afterwards that you are not even aware of. 

You miss out on a buffet of exquisite experiences available to you in every moment when you are stuck in this loop. Most of us have forgotten how to access these, but the good news is that your body remembers so you can reconnect. This really changes everything!

During this ceremony I will support you in connecting to your sensory inflow and listening to exactly how your body wants to touch or be touched. 

We meet on Zoom and for privacy and safety reasons cameras are off during the guided part of the ceremony. Participants who are not able to uphold this boundary will be removed. When we meet dressed at 8pm you can have your camera on if that feels good for you, this is optional. At the end we will get a chance to connect again with cameras on if you want to participate, please be covered for this. 

Prepare for the ceremony by setting your intention and creating a space that is beautiful and comfortable for you. Bring your favourite oils. You may want to have fabrics, feathers and other items nearby as they can feel really nice moved over your skin.

I will be recording the ceremony itself so that those who cannot attend live can benefit from the experience. It will be known to you when this is happening and it will only be my screen that will be recorded. This event is for all genders. 

When you register for the ceremony I will send you the zoom link.

Wednesday 14th of June  8-9.15pm BST. 

Here is some of the messages I received after a previous ceremony:

• I haven’t felt this connected to my body for a long time
• It felt really nourishing
• Fab, slept so well after it
• That was truly special!
• I rediscovered how I like to be touched
• So much pleasure in my body I didn’t need to touch my genitals
• Noticing areas of pleasure I was not aware of 
• A truly beautiful experience. Body, mind and spirit feel deeply blissed and blessed
• What a magical time and so informative about how important connection to our body is