The Heart of Consent meets NoorderKink (NL)

After years of studying together it was about time that Lisa and I got together to cook up something wonderful. We are inviting you to a weekend of Consent, Conscious Kink/BDSI and impact play. Have you ever felt like dipping your toe in the amazing world of conscious kink? This is your change. This weekend is for beginners and intermediates, practicing Consent, boundaries, desires, Power & Surrender and lovely Impact play.

Are you curious how to set up a scene or ask for what you want? During this weekend we will touch upon it all. And at the very core is YOU, your limits, your desires and your capacity to expand. In this workshop saying ‘No’ is an active way of participating. Choosing for yourself is key, from that place you can choose to let others come near, or not.

We will spend quite some time on either being in a position of ‘Power’, where you get to lead, within the limits of the other, and in the position of ‘Surrender’, where you let the other have the wheel, but you control the brakes and the gas.

 

Friday 8th of November 7.15-11pm –  Kinksent Introduction

‘Will you pull my hair, for three minutes, exactly the way I want it?

In this workshop we will explore the basics of consent, focussed on asking for what we want, particularly in the field of the more sensual or kinky requests. You will practise your no’s, yeses and maybe’s so that you are able to be certain that you are asking exactly for what you want and that you are in clear contact with your limits and boundaries. The workshop aims at offer a safer space in which to practice and show up with your requests and your limits and boundaries, all of you is welcome, especially your ‘NO’ ❤️

Saturday 9th of November 12am-5pm and 7pm-1am A day of Tantric BDSI

In this daylong workshop we will explore the realms of tantric BDSI. What is it and how does it differ from traditional BDSM. We will dip our adored toesies into the dynamics of power and surrender before moving into learning how to wield a flogger in order to provide an astounding experience for our Subs that will awaken them into their body and send them spinning miles high. You will learn all about the different tools, how to negotiate a scene, how to beg for love and how to grant it with the tiniest of movements. We will also explore bondage (not shibari), where we will learn to play our subs like a string instrument, sending shivers up their spines and holding them in absolute safety. The day will end in a play party where you have ample space to explore all you learnt and dive even deeper if you choose 🔥

Sunday 10th of November 1-4.30pm –  The Traveling Sadist set up Shop

What better way to start your sunday then with a lazy session of body adoration via spanking?!? Just imagine your Dom taking all the time in the world to treat your whole body as if it was a musical instrument and using all fantasies and tools available to them to co-create an experience of absolute bliss  in the world of pain vs pleasure. Experience being held in their energy while you go into full surrender. We will start with a long demo on how to set it all up (are you the demobod??) ask questions, explore the various tools and tricks and then you will have ample time to explore it yourself. The key words here are breath, connection, sound and slowing down.

 

There are 2 options for this weekend:

Option 1 is to participate Friday and Saturday £200

Option 2 is to include the After Party on Sunday so all 3 days £250

For concessions and/or payment plan please get in touch with me. I would also appreciate if we can connect before you book the event if you do not already know me and have participated in my workshops. I want to do my best to make sure that this is a safe event for all involved. 

I am super excited that Bas was a hell yes to travel over and share this important work with us in the North East. Bas has and continues to be a very important man in my life and my healing journey. If you would like to get more of a feel for us please listen to this conversation we had a little while ago. 

Here is some more info about Bas:

I have always been an explorer. My journey has led me via plant medicine to explore Reiki, body dearmouring, breathwork, deep deep consent work via the system of Somatic Consent and recently Tantric BDSI. Along the journey I have dived into non-duality, Taoism and been working as a Human Design coach for a number of years now. I have stepped away from calling myself a seeker of truth, because that implies that there is something to be found. Instead I try to live truth, to the best of my capabilities, and sometimes I utterly fail. 

I walk along with people on their path, if they ask me, be it as a coach, sharing from my own experiences and reflecting on their situation. Mostly I see myself as the one who throws pebbles in the water and watch the ripples appear and move outward, all by themselves.

I believe in the power of the Self, the capability of healing ourselves, with the right help, and being open to live showing us the way, if we let it and notice the signs along the way. At the same time, I believe in the power of connection, and the importance of working together on healing ourselves, so that we all may grow.

 

Photo by Sam Kauranna @ consensual.eu 🙏